Turn the conflict into clarity—together.

You love each other — but you want to live in different places.

One dreams of the city. The other craves the coast.
One wants a house. The other prefers an apartment.
Stay close to family — or start fresh somewhere new?
Prioritise lifestyle, career, healthcare — or even live apart but stay together?

One wants to stay. One wants to go.
And now, you're stuck.

The decision feels impossible.
But it doesn’t have to stay that way.

This doesn’t have to stay a cycle of stress and stalled decisions.
My Confusion to Clarity and Beyond™ process helps couples move from indecision to aligned, confident choices —together.

What This Is:

A one-on-one coaching process (delivered in person or via video) for couples who can’t agree on where to live — and don’t want this conflict to break them.

In just one powerful session, we’ll work through:

• The emotional drivers behind your disagreement

• Your shared values, vision, and non-negotiables

• A location decision-making framework built for your relationship

• How to reach aligned, confident next steps

What You’ll Get:

✔️ 1:1 guided coaching sessions with me (in-person or virtual)
✔️ A structured, judgement-free space to be honest — and get unstuck
✔️ A proven, step-by-step framework to turn gridlock into grounded decisions
✔️ Tools, conversation starters, and strategies you’ll use for life

This is For You If…

✅ You and your partner want different locations—and can’t agree
✅ You’re tired of going in circles and avoiding the conversation
✅ You want a decision that feels right for both of you
✅ You care about each other—and want to move forward, not apart

Why This Works:

I’ve helped couples make life-changing decisions without sacrificing the relationship. This process is honest, structured, supportive — and it works. It’s not therapy. It’s not about convincing. It’s about uncovering clarity and choosing with intention.

How It Works:

🔍 Step 1: The Real Talk
Uncover what’s really behind the conflict — what matters, what hurts, and what’s been left unsaid.

🎯 Step 2: Values & Vision Alignment
Map out what each of you needs, wants, and envisions — then find the overlap.

✨ Steps 3–5: The Secret Sauce
Explore unspoken truths, emotional drivers, and fresh options — individually and together.

🧭 Steps 6–7: Place with Purpose
Work through “what if” exercises to test your options through each lens — yours, theirs, and as a couple.

✅ Step 8: Decide with Confidence
Land on a clear, shared decision — and leave with your next steps ready to go.

Your Investment:

$299 NZD
Includes: A 2 - 2.5 hour session with me personally either in person or virtually.

❤️ This is a turning point — not just a conversation.

Ready to Move Forward—Together?

Click below to start your Confusion to Clarity and Beyond™ journey today.

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FAQ:

What if my partner isn’t 100% on board yet?
That’s common! I guide you both gently, with tools to help open up honest conversation. No one gets pushed or steamrolled.

What if we still can’t agree?
Most couples find clarity through this structured, values-based process. Even when the decision is complex, you'll gain the tools to move forward with confidence and deeper connection.

If a shared decision isn’t reached, I’ll walk you through the next best step — so you’re not left stuck or unsupported.

Is this therapy?
No. This is high-level coaching with a clear outcome: a shared, confident decision about where to live and how to make it happen.

Great, what happens if we reach a decision? What support do you offer after, to make it a reality?

Great question! Once you’ve reached a decision, I offer a dedicated Phase 2 session — a 1.5 to 2-hour deep-dive designed to help you move from clarity to confident action.

In this session, we map out the practical steps, mindset shifts, and support you’ll need to fully embrace your decision and make it real.

Need more support?
Ongoing guidance and accountability are available beyond Phase 2 if you'd like extra help navigating the transition.

Get started today!