“We love each other… but we can’t agree on where to live.”

It started as a conversation.
Then it became a disagreement.
Now, it's a decision that feels impossible — and it's weighing on your relationship.

You’re torn between the life you imagined… and the person you love.

But what if you didn’t have to choose?

My Confusion to Clarity and Beyond™ process helps couples move from gridlock to grounded decisions — without sacrificing the relationship.

👉 Ready to stop going back and forth and make a clear, confident decision — together?

From Gridlock to Grounded Decision — In One Guided Session

This is a private, one-on-one coaching experience (held in person or over video) designed specifically for couples who:

• Love each other/want to be together

• But feel stuck in conflict about where to live next

Whether it's city vs. rural or mountains, apartment vs. house, close to family or far away, career or lifestyle — you’re no longer just talking in circles. You're feeling trapped in them.

This is for you if…

• You and your partner want different things — and can’t reach an agreement

• You’re tired of avoiding “the conversation” or having the same fight

• You want clarity without compromising your relationship

• You’re ready to make a decision that feels right for both of you

What You’ll Get

• A powerful 2–2.5 hour session with me (in-person or online)

• A structured, judgement-free space to get honest — and unstuck

• A step-by-step framework that makes decision-making feel doable

• Tools and insights you’ll use far beyond this issue

• A clear outcome: a shared decision you both feel good about

What Couples Are Saying

“We just didn’t know what option to take. Denise solved it all for us.”
“Denise managed to channel our thoughts into a cohesive, appropriate, and possible plan for the next five years. Sometimes you can’t see the wood for the trees — and Denise helped us out of the forest.”
— P & J, Auckland

Why This Works

This is not therapy.
This is not about one person convincing the other.
And it’s not about staying stuck.

It’s a values-based decision process that creates space for both voices, clears emotional roadblocks, and leads you to one thing: clarity you can act on.

How It Works

Step 1: The Real Talk
We uncover what’s really behind the conflict — what matters, what hurts, and what’s been left unsaid.

Step 2: Values & Vision Alignment
You’ll each share what you truly want, value, and imagine. We map where it overlaps.

Steps 3–5: The Secret Sauce
We bring clarity to what’s underneath the indecision — then explore new creative options together.

Steps 6–7: Place with Purpose
We pressure-test possibilities through your lens, your partner’s, and as a couple.

Step 8: Decide with Confidence
You leave with a clear decision — and the path to make it real.

Your Investment

$299 NZD
Includes a private 2–2.5 hour session with me personally, in person or via video.

If you don’t leave with clarity, I’ll work with you to shift—or refund you.

What Happens If We Do Reach a Decision?

I offer a dedicated Phase 2 session (1.5–2 hours) to help you implement your decision confidently and practically — from mindset to move.

Need more help?
Ongoing support and accountability are available after Phase 2 if needed.

Still Wondering If It’ll Work for You?

Most couples find clarity through this structured, values-first process.
Even if the decision is complex, you’ll leave with tools, direction, and a deeper connection.

And if a shared decision still isn’t reached?
I’ll walk you through the next best step — so you’re not stuck, and never unsupported.

Spots Are Limited

I only work with a limited number of couples each month — and most book within 48 hours of visiting this page.

If you’re ready to stop wondering and start moving forward — now is the time.

This isn’t just a conversation. It’s a turning point.

Clarity is closer than you think.